Our pain has purpose. We just might not see it yet.

 



There is power in every single life, no matter the time here on Earth. This story I want to tell is about our son, Brighton Wilder, who was given a life limiting diagnosis. We chose life for him, not knowing how long that might be. Ultimately, this is a story of how God weaves together our experiences with others and makes this beautiful community to go through life with. He works all things for good for those who love Him (Romans 8:28). I felt the need to share this, with the hope that others who might be in our situation or know someone going through this, could be encouraged by our journey. 

I have always journaled in some form, but I journaled extensively while I was pregnant with Brighton and since he was born. I never knew what to do with my thoughts, except I did always feel like there was a place for me to share in hopes of encouraging others who might be going through a similar situation of infant loss, or know someone who is. It can be a very lonely place, but it doesn't have to be. 

I pray that God uses my words and our journey to help another family going through a dark valley.  Sharing my personal journals seems so vulnerable, but there are so many amazing God stories that I just want to make sure are known and that He is glorified in this. 

I have always taken comfort in Psalm 23:4 "Even though I walk THROUGH the darkest valley I will fear no evil, for YOU ARE WITH ME; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me." God never says we will stay in this valley. We are moving through it and He will never leave us there. What peace He gives if we will just rest in that Truth. 

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  1. Much love to your family! Brighton’s memory will continue to share light where there is dark, and love where there is loss. Can’t wait to read along this journey of sharing. ❤️

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    1. Haley, you've always been so good at remembering Brighton and bringing him into conversations. Love you friend!

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  2. Jill, I am absolutely astounded by your strength and the power you have to share Brighton’s story. His life will forever be cherished. Every full moon reminds me of his story. I can’t wait to read your words and follow along with your journey. 💙🌕

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    1. I love seeing the moon too! The moon is always round, and God is always good:) Love you!

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